Our genetics simply drive our attraction to the opposite sex! Sure, married women can have male friends, but is it the best choice for the rule, I would challenge married women to reconsider having close male friends. You have written only to ask us the reasons you may feel so attracted to John and not the ways to deal with your relationship in a manner that does not affect your marriage negatively.
Source:News Limited. What are the "rules" for a single man/married woman friendship? best friend has always been a single guy and now that you are married, this. This is as rigid as it's Christian born roots!
If the wife is needlessly jealous, this is first and foremost a problem for the husband. Originally Answered: Can a married woman have male friends? . Priyank Shishodia, still single,waiting for the perfect one so can't say ;). No way i would put up with you id kick him out to find his own women.
It begins with your heart and with your mind. I am stuck at the age old question of can men and women be friends. I recently made some new friends since I relocated 2 years ago, 2 of these. All that insecurity, blame and defensiveness leads to even more relational disconnect, and often to a full-blown fight — just like it did for Erin and me.
As to your question about why you are still attracted to your friend, your story reveals all the reasons. Many married women (and married men) insist that having a best friend of the opposite sex is perfectly healthy. In fact, they say that opposite. Typically the reasons they are 'friends' is because one of them doesn't want more.
Do you know of a marriage in crisis? The last impenetrably bulletproof glass ceiling hovering over the heads of women prevents us from entering into friendships with men. June 10,
Has his boss been criticizing him at work? Men and women can be friends, every presenter at the conference argued, A married man and a single woman (or vice-versa), or a married. I assume you're close enough to these guys that you trust that their wives are decent enough people.
When I attempted to cross the friendship line with one woman, she slapped my face. So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. She had expressed her concern that he was spending too much time with my girlfriend on the trip, however, they worked it out. It doesn't matter how long the woman knows the man; if he is good looking, smart, charming, resourceful, courageous, adventurous, and gainfully employed, she.
The most easy way are group meetings so you have your hobby RPGs, movies, conventions etc. So, in that sense, my answer is yes, a married woman can have male friends. Absolutely she can. But this sort of friendly acquaintance is not. Horseradish 5 years ago Wedding: October Married women and single men can be friends and I believe it is quite healthy for married people to pursue and cultivate friendships outside the marriage with people of all genders and orientations.
A nice, definitive mealy-mouthed answer is: it depends. I know sophisticated and worldly women — married and single — who will say of their male friends: 'Oh, he never thinks of me in that way. If you really value your marriage you need to put the emotional intensity that you feel for your ex-colleague back into your relationship with your wife.